Saturday, January 31, 2009
Too Old To Be Frustrated...but I am
On an external note: A day of sunshine and nearly 50 degrees. It warms me inside and upside down. I live for the warmth and the sun.
Cooking corn beef and cabbage...its smells so darn good! No one home to enjoy it so its cooking slow.
Lots to say but still sorting it out in my head. If I dont have any answers by tomorrow, I will write it out and hope that helps the sorting out process!
TTFN
Thursday, January 29, 2009
Educational reading
http://www.time.com/time/business/article/0,8599,1870699,00.html?xid=feed-yahoo-biztech
Karma is on the loose!

Yesterday's weather was full on sun. The weather was incredible 50 degrees for a fleeting few yest. Open windows, place back to window and soak it in. Ah......this gorgeous sunguy is possibly my next tattoo design. . . :)
UPDATES: Youngest daughter had an excellent bd: check
CA daughter is now a resident and received her reduced tuition rates: super check
Getting tax information slowly for my tax people and should be done by the weekend: check
Four family members with health issues, two hospitalized, another heading we hear, to chemo; one has an inoperable bowel blockage and is not a surgical candidate; one has terminal CA and so much more. It all started about a month ago when my better half commented, while we were driving by our most used regional medical center: "Gee I am lonesome for <<<..hahha" I remember saying, "Gee, knock on wood because you just set the karma loose...."
I missed work the last couple of days, doing my part. It's becoming clearer and clearer to me that big families never have dull moments and its generally overlapping big stuff. Put on the game face, hope for a bit more sleep and keep going!
With any luck at all we will get to keep our bd dinner date for all you can eat crab up the road.
Am trying to keep reading; really distracted and attention span is nearly zero in that regard. So tired...
TTFN
Tuesday, January 27, 2009
Safe passage...so far
Youngest made it safely to 18. A feat itself. Our work is not done, but safe passage...to young adulthood was made. Wheee
For nearly 25 years (half my life less 2 years) its been full on parenting. How dare son grow up and leave home 7 years ago; how heartbreaking when oldest daughter did the same five years ago...everything as they say it does, keeps changing. And so must I.
18 years ago, SuperBowl Sunday this fiesty girl waited until just 12 minutes after the bowl game was over before she made her first appearance...she beat the doctor and two good nurses, Sharron and Debbie ensured her safe delivery. She was born with an impossibly good nature and a super social and sunny disposition --add her insatiable ZEST for life. Thanks to her brother and sister for all their pseudo parenting and taking of the late night calls...from me during the last 6 years. They have been rough, very difficult and scary.
I pray for safe passage through the next waves of life and as for me, this milestone in my life, calls for a true celebration filled with anything but vodka!TTFN
Sunday, January 25, 2009
Sentimental Me and there is no fix for it!

SUNDAY: It's cold, wet, slick, gray, icy and lousy out. The weather people say some sun manana...could it be? Full of oatmeal, scrambled eggs, juice and coffee (yes, did not know we were out of bacon...sad sad and a minor crime) and with many chores accomplished, there are many more to go....
Ebay is getting a lot of my attention right now.. a little extra busy never hurt anyone.
Youngest daughter is turning 18 on Tuesday. I feel as fixated on her birthday this year as when my other 2 had their milestone birthdays...Being super sentimental around landmark dates, I get ultra transported ..a tiny girl wrapped papoose style in a blue and pink cotton blanket......she had long jet black hair.see photo above..i am laying her in her sister and brother's intertwined arms for the first time... I can still see myself watching those three close for the first time and I am weeping tiny tight tears feeling sooooo humble and very nervous sure I had been dealt all high aces by mistake...because truth told, I didn't even really like kids when I was young..up until my mid20s, I felt sorry for friends who had them.... This youngest one is growing up and she told me a couple nights ago she didn't really want to since she liked being a kid. Wow! I hadn't met a kid yet who didn't want to swing on the stars far away from their parents as soon as possible! I am still thinking her statement over...
Lots to do...more later
TTFN
Friday, January 23, 2009
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
Thank you keith oberman & production people
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
Its Champagne time and WOOHOO New President

I didnt want to leave the tv this morning but finally did...got to work and it was a close call, almost missing our new president's inaugural speech... Mrs Domestic and I had to make a run for it from our cubicles, back to my car, so we could inhale President Barack Obama's words...all the videos and online links began failing....and then our govt IT folks started blocking and firewalling our news links. WTH!
But we accomplished our mission (get well soon Mrs D) and then kept going.
I am sipping Asti, be it late..and alone, as my better half would get unforgivable whiplash from the too many bubbles this late at night.
I saluted everyone and everything I could think of, including my staunch Republican brother in law who is dying and polishing his guns ...he is soooo........... miserable.... we are having such a great time teasing him.
I heard from my kids today and it was a wonderful moment, sharing our joy and happiness for this time of new possibility!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Monday, January 19, 2009
Confused stubborness for principle

Editorials worldwide pillory Bush one final time
- Kirschbaum Erik Kirschbaum – Mon Jan 19, 11:59 am ET
BERLIN (Reuters) – Editorial writers around the world have been taking their final printed whacks at George W. Bush, accusing the president of tarnishing America's standing with what many saw as arrogant and incompetent leadership.
Some newspaper editorials, for all their criticism, suggested historians might just be kinder later on than those now writing first drafts of history. A success often cited by those seeking a silver lining was the United States' freedom from further homeland attacks following September 11.
Bush's successor, Barack Obama, will be sworn in as the 44th U.S. president on Tuesday.
"A weak leader, Bush was just overwhelmed in the job," said Germany's Sueddeutsche Zeitung under a headline: "The Failure." "He confused stubbornness with principles. America has become intolerant and it will take a long time to repair that damage."
Editorials hit out at Bush for two unfinished wars, for plunging the economy into recession, turning a budget surplus into a pile of debt, for his environment policies and tarnishing America's reputation with the Guantanamo Bay detention center.
Bush was given credit in some editorials for defending the United States against terror attacks after September 11, 2001.
Israel was most complimentary, of his intentions if not necessarily of his achievements.
"Of all the U.S. presidents over the past 60 years, it is hard to think of a better friend to Israel than George W. Bush," the Jerusalem Post daily wrote during Bush's final visit.
Last week columnist Caroline Glick wrote Bush "recognizes Israel and the U.S. share the same enemies and they seek to destroy us because we represent the same thing: freedom. But Bush never learned how to translate personal views into policy."
Canada's Toronto Star was categorical in its condemnation.
"Goodbye to the worst president ever," it declared. "Bush was an unmitigated disaster, failing on the big issues from the invasion of Iraq to global warming, Hurricane Katrina and the worst economic crisis since the Great Depression."
"Bush leaves a country and an economy in tatters," wrote the Sunday Times in London. It said America's national debt and unemployment nearly doubled on his watch.
Britain's Daily Mail said he entered office with a budget surplus of $128 billion but exits with a $482 billion deficit.
"He leaves the world facing its biggest crisis since the Depression, the Middle East in flames and U.S. standing at an all-time low.
"How will history judge George W.? Have we, perhaps, to quote his own mangled malapropisms, 'misunderestimated' him? On the plus side, after 9/11 he achieved what became his number one priority: to prevent his country suffering further attack on its own soil. Al Qaeda has been hugely weakened."
LEGACY OF WARS
The Scottish Daily Record observed: "America is now hated in many parts of the world. Bush leaves a legacy of wars and the world economy in meltdown. He has been dismissed as a buffoon and a war-monger, a man who made the world a more dangerous place while sending it to the brink of economic collapse."
The Economist found room to praise Bush on free trade, immigration reform and China. But its overall view was negative:
"He leaves as one of the least popular and most divisive presidents in American history. Bush has presided over the most catastrophic collapse in America's reputation since World War Two."
The Sydney Morning Herald complained about Bush's "singular lack of curiosity in international matters" in an editorial titled "Farewell to a flawed and unpopular commander-in-chief."
But it also praised Bush for improving U.S. relations with China and India, his efforts to fight AIDS in Africa. It predicted historians might one day rank Bush in the mid range.
Le Monde disagreed.
"It's hard to find a historian who won't say that Bush was the most catastrophic leader the U.S. has ever known," the French daily wrote. "One success: since September 11, 2001, there was no attack on U.S. soil. But this sits alongside an interminable list of failures, starting with the war in Iraq."
Germany, ridiculed as "old Europe" by Bush's former defense secretary Donald Rumsfeld for opposing the Iraq invasion, took aim at Bush.
"Bush brought great misery to the world with his 'friend-or-foe' mentality," wrote Die Zeit.
Stern magazine said: "Bush led the world's most powerful nation to ruin. He lied to the world, tortured in the name of freedom and caused lasting damage to America's standing."
The Pan-Arab al-Hayat newspaper resorted to bitter black humor under the headline: "We cried a lot and the joke was on us." It recalled his controversial election win in Florida and how he once nearly choked on a pretzel, watching television.
"Perhaps we could say that fate, which let the American people down first in Florida and then with the issue of the pretzel in the president's throat, ultimately helped them by making sure the president would spend half his time on vacation.
"Indeed, he would have caused twice the damage if he had been more active and focused."
Austria's Wiener Zeitung wrote Iran's Mahmoud Ahmadinejad even ranked higher in one international opinion poll than Bush:
"The United States was once the symbol of justice in the world but that has been damaged by Bush. A web of manipulation has cost America $900 billion and the lives of 4,000 soldiers -- along with at least 500,000 Iraqis."
In Poland, the Warsaw daily Dziennik lamented the worst part about Bush's presidency: "It was empty rhetoric."
(Additional reporting by Jakub Jaworoski in Warsaw, Peter Griffiths in London, Alastair Macdonald in Jerusalem, and Francois Murphy in Paris; editing by Ralph Boulton).
Sunday, January 18, 2009
To improve or leave well enough alone
Ben Franklin regularly followed a plan to develop his character. Based on Philippians 4, Ben used the chart below as a tool to improve himself.Check out the site Flamebright for a brief explanation and DIY Planner for templates you can print out.
His “Plan” was made up of 13 virtues, each with short descriptions:
1. Temperance: Eat not to dullness and drink not to elevation.
2. Silence: Speak not but what may benefit others or yourself. Avoid trifling conversation.
3. Order: Let all your things have their places. Let each part of your business have its time.
4. Resolution: Resolve to perform what you ought. Perform without fail what you resolve.
5. Frugality: Make no expense but to do good to others or yourself: i.e. Waste nothing.
6. Industry: Lose no time. Be always employed in something useful. Cut off all unnecessary actions.
7. Sincerity: Use no hurtful deceit. Think innocently and justly; and, if you speak, speak accordingly.
8. Justice: Wrong none, by doing injuries or omitting the benefits that are your duty.
9. Moderation: Avoid extremes. Forebear resenting injuries so much as you think they deserve.10. Cleanliness: Tolerate no uncleanness in body, clothes or habitation.
11. Chastity: Rarely use venery but for health or offspring; Never to dullness, weakness, or the injury of your own or another’s peace or reputation.
12. Tranquility: Be not disturbed at trifles, or at accidents common or unavoidable.
13. Humility: Imitate Jesus and Socrates.
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Friday, January 16, 2009
Farlucks tale of Once upon a coffee pot

Coffee is my sacred vice. It's beyond a must, it's life.
This morning my 3 month old cheap pot which knew i didnt love it, broke underneath. All but 2 cups dripped out on the floor from beneath the pot; to buy another cheapie or invest in a ceramic air pot type that I had been eyeing at the local coffee shop I shall call farlucks. The better half and I were on our way home when he took a sharp right and parked in front of farlucks.
We purchased the ceramic air pot super deluxe on sale plus 10 percent discount and a free pound of coffee (all this makes a joe lover's heart pound and gyrate). Drove home 30 miles and set up a test....but our new pot was half filled with old coffee (disgusting) and had no cord. Ring ring local farlucks....bring it right down....better half did so and brought home another pot and sorry gifts: 2 new mugs, a container of cookies. We pour some water in the top and then a mess of it came flying out of the brewer and not into the pot. The spring was missing from this pot that allowed the coffee to come out of the brewer in an orderly stream, into the pot. Ring ring, hello farlucks....omg, bring it back. 20 minutes later coffee pot number three is doing all the right things; we have more sorry gifts, all gifts now total 63 dollars and the pot itself was 89. Quite a night trying to achieve coffee ambiance.
I would have actually used the old pot and taken the mishappen first pot back 30 miles tomorrow but I had already thrown it in the garbage can with a so there bag of trash on top of it.
I was off work today after a rigorous week (thanks for so much help and back up mrs. dom.) So for the first time ever, better half and i were able to attend a daytime program of grandson number 2s.
It was an intricate, thoughtful, pretty mature in content MLK celebration and recognition program. Like all school programs I was squirming after 20 minutes; but it was amazing. Old movie clips, videos, kids saying his words and reciting poems, singing song after song. The best kids school program ever. Wow!


Friday, January 9, 2009
So long ineptitude...hello possibility and clean up

Say good bye to how many years of ineptitude?
time president-elect, then candidate Obama was getting ready to
climb back into his official US plane and go to Montana.
We hung around the airport for about an hour while waiting
for his entourage. Daughter, pictured above, was not too interested,
but she got into it. My better half, above, told her this was a chance
of a life time as he would probably be the next prez.
The result is, as above. This is our hometown slice of political involvement
other than getting our Neumanesque mailman to
comment on our Obama sticker. Which lead to me filing
a complaint with the PO and getting an apology from
his supervisor. I really wanted an apology from the postal carrier who made it.
I digress....Time to get ready for work so more soon...next week think four day weekend!
We are less than 2 weeks from our 44th president being sworn in..although I would swear he is already running the country...where is Bush jr. these days besides making guest appearances in places he has never visited before...like dept of transportation for five minutes. Heard the mrs. got her last licks in with the purchase of a $200,000 in new china and a matching rug!
Sunday, January 4, 2009
Paperwork
In a very weird way, it makes me very very happy to do this stuff and help make lives better.
It's very very cold outside again; that would explain sitting here in a chilly back room with no socks on and two robes trying to keep the fingers warm and type. We closed the door to this room last night and woooo....great for keeping the heat bill a shade lower; not great for the digits calling to me for shoes.
Today will be a day of I am not sure yet. There is plenty of productive things to do, but it is also the last day before returning to a regular work schedule; haven't missed it at all!
TTFN!
Friday, January 2, 2009
I could not have said it any better
HTTP://eastoregonian.info/main.asp?
Posted 1/2/2009 10:00:00 AM Article :
World War II veterans, who represent the last massive contingent of Americans who have seen the battlefield, are dying at the rate of 1,200 per day. Certainly there are thousands remaining who served with distinction in the Korean War, in Vietnam, in the Persian Gulf and in Iraq and Afghanistan. But the odds of our nation being led by a veteran is diminishing as a prospect. Between 1944 and 1992, prior military service was considered a must for presidential candidates. Those who are old enough to remember Dwight D. Eisenhower recall the euphoria that existed when a conquering war hero came home to lead us in peacetime. Apparently voters no longer consider service in the military to be a high priority - for themselves or for candidates. Vietnam, for the most part, changed all of that. The necessity for military experience ended in 1992 when Bill Clinton defeated President George H. W. Bush, a decorated World War II veteran, and again four years later when he defeated Sen. Bob Dole, another combat veteran. It was repeated again when President George W. Bush defeated Al Gore and John Kerry, both Vietmam veterans, and finally last year when Barack Obama, with no military service, defeated John McCain, who spent over five years in a North Vietnamese prison camp. In the summer of 2007, Reuters reported of the 18 candidates for the 2008 presidential election, only two had experience on the front lines - McCain and Duncan Hunter. Several others served in non-combat roles, but for the most part service experience was limited. In 1970, veterans accounted for 21 percent of the voting population. By the year 2000, that was down to 11 percent and, within two decades, it will be as low as 5 or 6 percent. As we contemplate the toll of our involvement in two faraway countries, neither of which offered a threat to our freedom, it is vital we also remember those Americans who abhor war the most are those who have experienced it firsthand and have been touched by its far-reaching and tragic tentacles. As former President Eisenhower reminded Americans, "Men who have never known war are those who are most eager to send others into combat." Vice President Dick Cheney, who offered much of the energy behind our current engagement, obtained four separate deferments from the draft during the Vietnam War. President Bush served with the Texas Air National Guard. Neither President-elect Obama nor Vice President-elect Joe Biden have any military experience. Several weeks ago, we quoted a World War II veteran who once said America will be the land of the free only so long as it remains the home of the brave.
Perhaps we would add " ... and the wise." We have squandered most of the goodwill we once enjoyed with the international community. We have little support in our efforts to police a world that seems to find us more intrusive than helpful. Our economy is in shambles and we are in the midst of a recession. Unless we quickly focus our attention on the battles at home, our position of power could be undermined, not militarily, but economically and politically. The military heroes, who led this nation and who fought to save the freedom we enjoy, will have sacrificed in vain if we do not maintain our capacity to retain a position of power on the world stage. Stewart Patrick, a former state department official at the Council on Foreign Relations, recently said, "There is no return to the time when the United States was the 'indispensable power.' The world has moved on. We are still a major player, but we are not the captain of the team. This need to collaborate and compromise rather than demand requires more than weapons and sheer strength. It will take new approaches and new solutions."
In the future, we may not always be led by veterans, but we owe them the kind of nation they helped preserve.